Sunday, August 8, 2010

This is what is saving me!!

Update on us. As many of you know Ryan finished his residency in June. He accepted a job in Coos Bay OR and although it is not the ideal location for us we are excited to move back to the west. Job hunting was harder than we had anticipated and in the end we feel pleased with the opportunity that Ryan has at his new job. Coos Bay was the first practice to contact us and after lots of pleading for other opportunities it turned out to be Ryan's top choice. We are excited to see what is in store for our family there. We are so happy for all that Ryan does to support our family. Well enough about him afterall this is my blog hehe!


Last month Ryan moved to OR by himself while I have stayed behind with the kiddos to try and sell our house. As I have feared,is has turned out to be the hardest part of this life changing year (new baby, new job, cross-country move, selling a house). So how am I faring?? Not to bad actually. While it is not in the plan for us to have the blessing of selling our house right now, I must say that we are receiving so many other blessings We have been able to stay very busy this summer doing lots of fun things many of which are in our price range of Free! It has been nice and hot which I love and will miss when I move to the cool OR coast. We have so much support from friends and neighbors, and we are completely in our comfort zone.
However reality is I have 5 kids and the oldest is 8 so no built in babysitter just yet. So what is my secret. Well it is something my SIL taught my a few years back. It is these cute little beans. We only use beans in the summertime they are our reward system. This summer especially they are saving my life. All I have to say is "I will give a bean to whoever will____" Usually I have multiple kids begging me to do the chore. Also if they are looking forward to earning a special privilege they ask me "Mom what can I do to earn a bean" Yes that is right they ask to do a chore, and it cost me nothing. I LOVE IT!! Beans are also taken away for inappropriate behavior. Beans have helped Mason to read better, Spencer to get his pjs on quickly, and Brooklyn to be held more often. Unfortunately beans have no effect on Devon and so he still may be the cause of my unravelling, but for now I am happy, and doing just fine. Thanks Krystal for teaching me about beans.
So here are the little cuties!


OK that is a bit of a fib. Here are the little crazies. Which is a more accurate description most of the time. Gotta love them.





4 comments:

our family said...

Tonya I've been thinking about you tons! It's amazing what kids will do for some pinto beans. Love beans! We miss you guys so so so much!!! It's been great seeing Ryan and we can't wait to see you guys again:)
krystal

Charity said...

Oh my goodness! They're HUGE! I am so sad we have missed seeing them. Look at your Brooklyn! I sooo cannot wait to see you guys back in the West. I hope youre holding up ok. Give them all a big hug from us.

Heitmann Family said...

Oregon, that means you are over here by me!! I hope your house sells soon so that you can move and be with your hubby!! Your kids are all getting so big!!

Brenda said...

So...what do you do with the beans? Did you say? I must try!